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<b>me:</b> texting him first is too desperate. in this age, a modern woman needs to be independent. i am a strong and busy lady. i will restrain myself, and keep myself an enigma.</p><p></p><b>me five seconds later:</b> life is too short to not live your passions fully. i'm going to text first; i free myself from society's restrains. without risk there is no reward,<p></p>